j acacia asked:


hi please tell me is there anyone who had vacuum assisted delivery and have healthy 10,20,…50 years old children.. after my delivery am hearing lot about the birth injury caused by vacuum asissted delivery.. i afraid so so much.. everything was over now.. i feel like all vacuum delivery end up with some complications.. plz tell me if u anything abt this and also if u had vacuum and have healthy children..

Clara

TINKERBELL asked:


I had a car accident in December just 2 weeks after giving birth and suffered whiplash - I was told where my ligaments were softened still from the pregnancy the recovery could be longer. I have been having physio for this. I have been getting neck and back pain but also lately I get headaches (up into the back of the skull), chest pain and shoulder pain. Do you think this is all in relation to the injury? These latest symptoms have only come on recently but I have been told everything can be related? I am fed up of taking painkillers, are there any natural pain relief available that anyone else has tried that is good and how long does it normally take for things to get back to normal? Bearing in mind, I have a young baby that requires a lot of lifting etc that I can’t rest.

Dustin

polldiva asked:


IMMIGRATION IN THE 20TH AND 21ST CENTURY - THE CURSE OF CIVILIZED NATIONS AND DECENT PEOPLES.

Immigration to America in the 17th to 19th century was by decent, hardworking, well intentioned people, heading to America with honorable intentions to build and contribute to society. They created a workable social system with benefits to the deserving and a society of well-intentioned and decent people. But no such people come any more.

Now they come in droves, packing the major cities, causing an increase in crime, congestion, and taxes as real estate rents soar, parking is unavailable or exorbitantly high. Americans who took their entire lives to pay off their home mortgages, now find that the taxes on their homes are so high, they cant afford to live in them any more and the congestion so bad, they cant even find a place to park in front of their own homes. Many have to pack up and move out of the city, just to make ends meet, and then face the arduous daily hours of driving back and forth just to get to work and back home. That is, those that still have jobs, since as this goes on, jobs disappear, either right here where we get laid off, or the whole company moves out to a cheap labor country. And as the hordes make demands for energy needs, power needed to heat and light homes and buildings is insufficient, and cities black out, the demand for gas soars, heating prices skyrocket, and our own supply of gas becomes insufficient to meet our own needs, and we become victims of the arabs, who use the pumps to revenge our policies they don’t like.

They pile over the borders or by plane on visitor visas, preying on the good naturedness of Americans to provide a refuge for the oppressed, they connive the appearance of the downtrodden and persecuted, and then sit down comfortably and stay here, leeching off the health care system which faces bankruptcy in 20 years, the welfare system that us sucker u.s. taxpayers have to pick up the tab for, and which we spent decades to build.

Social parasites from latin america, flock here to live free on us sucker taxpayers, dragging their families and relatives in, once they get green cards and then swamping the health care system with their third world illnesses and birth defects. And the other breed of latinos – criminals of the most evil intensities terrorizing communities in which they rob and kill.

Thieves and common criminals from the countries of eastern Europe and the soviet union, hearing that there is still stuff on store shelves when stores close, that hasn’t been shoplifted or sold, come and steal, with impunity.

Mafia organizations that control Russia and the countries of the former soviet union, setting up foreign crime systems that specialize in grand larceny, weaponry, even nuclear arms materials for sale, stolen from the old soviet system, available for sale to our enemies, raking them million$.

Africans with strange ,deadly diseases walk in, causing epidemics and death to our gay citizens and to innocent people in general and swamping the health care system.

Asians with alien religious philosophies, contrary to Christian monotheism, poisoning the minds of our youth. And they come and take our jobs away here in America, while employers, enticed by cheap labor, move their companies there, leaving us unemployed,.

Terrorists walk in and go about their death tactics with ease and we shudder at what they will do to us next.

All, contributing to crime, violence, social unrest.

Finally, To add insult to this injury, our government picks up the tab for hundreds of
thousands of third world “students” to come, pack our universities tuition free at the expense of us US taxpayers ,while we Americans fall into debt to pay for our own children to get a college education.

AND WE ARE EXPECTED TO PICK UP THE TAB WORLDWIDE
FOR THEM, WHENEVER SH!T HAPPENS ANYWHERE.
What kind of fools are running this country?
What kind of fools are we to let this go on?

Kelly

IceBreaker27 asked:


I know nothing about dream interpretation, but my roommate told me about her dream last night and I think it must mean SOMETHING!

Here is it: She gave birth to a stillborn child who bit her, hard, on the finger as she guided the child out of the birth canal, then died.

Opinions? There’s birth, injury, and death in there so it has to mean something! My roommate (she is 32, single) thinks it has something to do w/ her biological clock.

Jamie

Traveler asked:


I have been cleaning my basement out for over a week now sorting threw all the things that just ended up down there; I even came across a bag of garbage meant to be put out years ago for the garbage man to collect! I have gone as far as polishing the ceiling beams and old wooden staircase, and washed the crumbling floor.

I finally made my way to the back of the basement where large plastic bins were. I forgot where they came from. Upon opening them I found a few bins of my toys, clothes and other things from when I was a child. I am surprised that the bins in my damp moldy basement kept everything like new inside.

I came across a box with my old pictures and baby book. My parents are both passed away now and seeing them young again lightened my spirits and made my heart beat a bit quicker with joy. In the box are also my sibling’s baby books.

My one sibling brought sexual abuse and I was beaten by her first husband who knocked out a front tooth to add insult to injury. She has whined a life time that my birth ruined her life because I made her a middle child. When I put my guard down she steels from me even though she is married a wealthy man forty years her senior. My brother gets angry and insists I am selfish for wanting the stolen items back so through the years I distanced myself from them, I used to keep contact because that made our mother happy, our father died when I was young (and I am quite a bit younger than my siblings). Also my sister has destroyed most of my baby pictures and will not let me have any copies of the ones she has of our parents. The books I found are full of pictures I didn’t realize I had.

My dilemma is that when mom made these books, they were made for my siblings out of the goodness and innocence of mom’s heart. If you were me, would you sent the books to my siblings or just save them and give them to my nephews in the future. (I am a history buff kind of person and I always preserve memorabilia, I donated to the local historic society much from the old house I bought) .

Dale

miserablegirl321 asked:


I have been with him nearly 2 years, had a baby - lost a baby but he was wrong with me and verbally abusive a lot of the time, recently he is acting weird - sometimes v nice espec when I ignore him and sometimes extremely **** just cos I ring too much. I have cut back on my calls since he tried to dump on me the other day and I went into my job in bits. I find the whole process v cruel as I have not seen him in 10 wks now. Its all about the fact that I don’t want to be used by him anymore so I said how I won’t have sex with him unless he marries etc but he reacted with I dont want to have sex with u in case I give you another baby, I would love another baby but he is v insensitive to my feelings - I know I can not bring her back but the way I lost her was so unfair- i.e. birth injury - I also wondered if another woman is in the background after all why get shitty suddenly-switch your phone off - make the woman who bore
what I don’t get is..why does he keep to ring and check up on me if he clearly doesn’t want me from what he says - or then when he ignores me acts **** when I ring..its a push pull effect. Baby died 1st Oct 2007. He said we are leagues away from marriage but I think he knows that - that is bullsh=t. I am trying to forget him and move on with my life - I am more disturbed at his lack of care about this. I think he notices I move more and more away from him but he is only slightly reacting and when I completely ignore he is all sweet again like as if nothing ever happened.I think he fears commitment and I said fine take your time I fear it too..so why you going mad but its cos I bring it up a bit too often he goes loopy. But what does he expect - I want the relation to have a chance of moving and I start to get so fed up of it. Sex life is dead cos baby died, I never see him cos he has to work all the time on his business so what is left? what do you guys think thanks!
why would he want to hurt my feelings - I think he knows I have been through enough - ok so he is not being supportive but he does declare that he loves me a lot especially when I give him no contact whatsoever..I think he is confused - one min he wants me the next he doesn’t want to know so what is the best solution cos I really want to settle down with him..we have been through so much..I don’t want to just have another..even though it would be easy to get. I just want him..and even if he is being a shit I am just wondering what triggers this behaviour in a man..thanks to write anyway

Dora

Donovan J asked:


The goat was seen by a vet and they diagnosed a swelling or injury to the spinal cord Any guesses as to how long this takes to get better and what can we do to help?

Monica

Thunder B asked:


How about her mother saying she cant do it?

How about not having a place to have 14 children?

How about the two million in tax payers money to birth the 8?

How about the $50,000 she got for a back injury that she spent on plastic surgery, Inverto fertilization and not paying her bills?

Lewis

tinaq256 asked:


My daughter had a birth injury and needs a surgery that only 1 doctor in Texas is specialized to do. He has patented all 3 of the surgeries he performs. The problem is: I live in Alabama and BC/BS says I need to go to a nerve doctor in Alabama for her surgery to be covered. I’ve already seen these doctors and their surgeries DO NOT fix what needs to be fixed. They only fix the initial nerve injury…not the problems that come from the nerve injury. (unable to supinate, lift arm up straight, etc)

My daughter’s birth injury is call Erb’s Palsy. A brachial plexus injury that is caused due to the OB using too much force on her neck to pull her out of the birth canal. She was 10lbs 9oz and got stuck. The nerves that make my daughters right arm work were stretched from the spinal cord.

We have already had her nerve surgery in Texas and insurance paid $9,000 out of $88,000. I had really good insurance through Wachovia. Now I no longer work and we have family coverage through my husband’s job…which is a small company and no where as great as my insurance was. Now BC/BS barely wants to pay a penny for this out of state surgery and won’t get me to a person to talk to, to try and negotiate.

Oh I forgot to mention I also took $5000.00 cash that was required the day of surgery. (Thank goodness for our family who all gave us the money to pay this)

The surgeon in TX does not accept Reasonable & Customary, which is the amount that BC says the surgery is “worth” They can do that because it’s out of state and that’s the only amount they are willing to pay. I’ve appealed and appealed the last surgery to no avail…they haven’t paid any more.

Does anybody know anything that I can do to get insurance to pay more for her surgery?!

My daughter needs 1 more surgery to fix the deformity in her scapula that decrease the use of her arm.

Sorry this was so long.

Thank you for taking the time to read it

Charlene

blink twice asked:


what would cause this, an injury or birth defect perhaps? will this hinder or improve a sexual relationship with him?

Caroline